D3.
He's back.
We live in the same general area away from school, so yeah we went through the whole "yeah let's hang out!" thing. Since I heard he was dating someone else (a girl he always used to talk about when we were dating no less!), yeah yeah I'll believe that we'll hang out when I see it.
Well, I saw it!
Chatting online at like 11:30 on a Wednesday night, he joked that he was on his way over (we were discussing the food options at my house). Haha yeah sure! Come on over, just don't wake my parents (oh how I enjoy being home but oh how I miss the freedom of school)!
D3: Haha I'll be right over!
Me: (yeah yeah, I'll believe it when I see it)LoL okay great!
D3: No seriously...should I come over?
Uhhh....
So I polled some girlfriends quickly online (ohhh technology). Was this a booty call? Was he, as a "nice" guy who became a little too "nice" when he started treating me more as a sister than as a romantic interest, actually capable of a booty call? Am I technically dating this other guy* that I have been...seeing? What do I do with D3, who I had really really really liked at one point? And now...see occasionally and have really "friendly" but good conversation with?
Their consensus: Do it! But don't make out if you don't want to!
Great, now who honestly doesn't want a make out session? If there was an award for most likely to want one, I would totally win it. Like anytime. Day or night. Well, okay maybe I'd come in second place to one of my favorite ex-roommies. But I digress.
Mmm...kissing...Ahem. Excuse me. To return to the conversation:
Me: Haha okay yeah! come on over!
Ahhh what do I do now! What if my parents wake up? How do I convince him that I'm cool even though we're at my parents' house?
And then I heard my dad upstairs, stirring around. He sensed it! It's the dad's secret weapon: the sixth sense to protect his precious daughters.
Dad: What's going on?
Me: haha oh dad, nothing, just you know, watching some Scrubs (mmmm Zach Braff) before bed!
Dad: Oh, okay...
Me: ...
Dad: ...
Me: (yeah, I feel guilty easily and am super close and honest with my dad, I am so a wannabe bad girl) So...can I go out tonight with D3?
Dad: I knew something was going on!
...Long story short, the "out" option was genius of mine. The key here is: don't wake the parents (at least the key to my parents. They have learned to not care** how late I come home as long as I don't wake them up). So he let me go out rather than having him come in.
...Other long story short. D3 and I had a very lovely time. Very friendly. Although, he did buy my drink at the 24-hour convenience store, and opened the car door for me - but woah woah, that's because I hesitated at the door by accident by juggling my stuff around and just admiring his new car.
I'm glad! Because I don't want to disrespect/hurt *this current guy I'm "seeing," who is probably the sweetest guy I know. And heck, D3 and I have very good conversation for some reason. I guess any two people who can hang out in a parked sports car from 12:30 to 2 in the morning in the 24-hour parking lot with words actually coming out of their mouths are pretty decent conversationalists.
**okay really, care less. care less with a LOT of worrying. And probably not a good night of sleep. At least on my dad's part.
posting this so that Google doesn't think i'm 'inactive'
11 months ago
1 comment:
Hey--didn't know how to contact you otherwise. I saw that you posted at GirlHeadQuarters.org.
We'd love to have you guest blog for us sometime. Shoot me an e-mail at liz@girlheadquarters.org if you're interested.
Thanks!!
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